{pink & NY Nana} Thanks for the support. As a side note to all of this, anyone who doesn’t believe life begins at conception I saw proof that it indeed does. This pregnant daughter of mine went in yesterday for an ultrasound and sent me the dvd. The 12 week old baby is only 7.2 cm, about the size of my middle finger, and it stretched and kicked and waved. I cried with amazed joy. She lost her first baby 2 years ago, due to molar pregnancy at 5 months and we almost lost her with hormone driven tumors. I think they need some support right now. I am looking at flights for this week-end.